is it Break Up Season?

It Seems it is!

This is gonna be really short! i SWEAR! Blogger's Honour!

So, it really IS a break-up season. seems like breaking up is the new cool. Not to brag or anything, being SINGLE has always been really fetch and as thus, some of us plan on being single till the day we meet our spouses.

Anyway, i ask, and please do not laugh. At what age is a human being ready to start thinking of dating? Like seriously. some of us are never gonna be ready.

Recently, we heard that Liam and Miley split, and what followed after that, and what had been before that were splits. Ariana Grande and Jai Brooks went their separate ways and next thing, she was dating a Nathan Sykes (is that right?) from The Wanted.

Talking about bands, it brings me to my next Break-up-----> Jonas Brothers.

have i mentioned them? No. today might be the first time i reveal how i became a Jonatic.

I had just gotten into campus, and i was all lost and alone (still am by the way, 3 years later. okay, no interrupting) and i was downloading music by Demi Lovato when i came across Joe Jonas. They had a duet, This Is Me for the movie, "Camp Rock" so i decided to download some Joe Jonas.

as i checked out Joe Jonas, i found Jonas Brothers. i got their music and listened to it. and i remember the first song i heard was Burning Up, followed by Play My Music, the l;atter being a soundtrack in "Camp Rock"

and thus, began my interrupted relationship with these charmers.

Interrupted, huh? apparently, in 2008, NTV Kenya aired Camp Rock and i caught it towards the end, when Mitchie (Demi) was singing This Is Me. i loved the music, and i googled them, but after that, i just forgot them. my sister got When You Look Me In The Eye and she used to play it all the time, i was so bored and sick of it, i was half tempted to delete it from her phone.

anyway, 5 years on,.they have parted ways. i mean, they have been famous for only 7 years. and what happened to them being together till their 7th album? (i quote that from Year 3000. wait, is it 2nd or 7th album)

shoving "1st world problems" aside, the break-ups are also local. one of my friends broke up with her boyfriend, and another got ditched by her boyfriend, in under a month. one of the girls i have a close relationship with also broke up with her guy for the umpteenth time.

I als wonder to myself, why start running to intimacy when you start dating? No need to follow everything that Hollywood shows. Meet on day 1, make out in the bathroom, by the end of the first week, the two are having sex in the guy's place, and everywhere else whenever they can. THAT IS NOT LOVE. JUST LUST

why?

Remember when you were a kid, your mum and dad told you to never talk to strangers? You never did, right? Then why are you having sex with a stranger?

i am not judging or anything, but why rush to act like a bunny who has a limited num,ber of days to live while you can wait till the right time for a relationship that intimate? Sex is only secure and funa nd satisfying when it is done in marriage. Okay, how did i get to that topic?

Back to break-ups. Dating is not easy. and that is why its best for you to know what you really want before you approach anyone. do you want to be friends, or more than friends? once you start. you can't back down. once you say some things, you can't erase them.

Think!

Or else you will have like a thousand plus exes and people will label you loose.

i never said dating was easy, did i? Everytime you deal intimately with someone, you give a part of you. okay, so by the time you meet the man God decreed for you, you will be all empty and insecure.

Wouldn't you want to at least have something to give the person you will spend the rest of your days with? You should guard yourselves, save your hearts for someone who matters. Someone who is worth it.

So, stop dating just to get over someone else. it is pathetic. treat yourself with dignity.

anyways, who am i to give you dating advice? i have a non-existent love life, right?

Anyways, i hope no one else breaks up, because i am tired of seeing ex-couples and their friends from bothe sides fighting on social media.

the real reason i wrote this post was not to intimidate anyone, or persecute. Ebverybody has their way of life, and mine includes updating my blog. sorry if i ruffled a few feathers.

this looks pretty long, huh? okay, it ends here. gotta go, i need to save the world! *tears away the buibui and flies out in the Muslim SuperWoman Outfit* SuoperWoman is HERE! To save the little people in distress./ What's wrong child?

Love,  xoxo
~Me